blausea 我在這裡慢慢潛泳,緩緩漂流前進著

春天來了,留留寫了一張清單,把他春天要做的事記下來. socer = soccer, natrue = nature, flours = flowers.

留留說,他特別喜歡的活動特加註一個笑臉!看來他的春天很忙碌呢!


前幾天再次去 petsmart 買了五隻 guppy fish, 這些超強繁殖者真的很厲害,今天留留發現他們生小魚了.我們小心翼翼的撈出十二隻小魚放進紙杯裡,再放到大桶礦泉水的空桶子裡小心的養著,不這樣分開,小魚寶寶會被吃掉的.

就在同一天他的螳螂死了,今早留留製造人工露珠的時候不小心灑了太多水,想必他上學後螳螂寶寶不慎掉下來淹死了.等他放學後看到已經來不及了.唉.

他很傷心,卻想幫自己開脫,居然怪罪到我頭上 "If you didn't tell me to make morning dew for him, he wouldn't have died now." blaming and making excuses 是個不好的習慣.於是我告訴他 "You know it's not true." As consequences, 我取消 his weekly library day 讓他留在家裡,自己上圖書館把 reserved 的書借回來.

睡前利用我們的 cuddle time 告訴他, It's okay to make mistakes but it's not okay to make excuses or blame someone else. As his parents, we are responsible for helping him grow out of some of his not-so-good behaviors.  He needs to learn to cope with disappointment and frustration.  It is just a learning process that every kid has to go through.

來點輕鬆的小魚寶寶照.我查了一下網路上的建議,也許應該把公 guppy 和母 guppy 隔離.這幾隻魚是第二批買的熱帶魚.才進家門四天就生這麼多孩子.留留說 he is going to have a fish sale. 真不敢相信他打算賣魚給學校的同學.



運送完畢後發現魚缸裡還有一隻小魚.大家都沒力氣撈了.這一隻小魚成為名副其實的"漏網之魚".



[小記] Talking about everyone making mistakes...昨晚去健身房的路上,被警察閃燈, pulled over 後警察問我是否在講電話,我的電話在家裡充電呢.他於是問我是否剛剛把手放在耳朵邊,我很狐疑的說沒有呀!警察快速的掃視車內後問我 "Why is there a chain in the car?" 我說 "Oh we go skiing a lot. That's our snow chain!" 意識到誤攔下我後警察快速說聲 "Have a nice evening." 就開走了!