mallet 鼓棒
tambourine 鈴鼓
den-den drum 波浪鼓
castanets 響板
Your baby has probably been wrestling with bouts of separation anxiety during the last several months. This is natural: She loves and depends on you, so she's distressed when you leave.
To
ease departures, make them short and sweet. Be matter-of-fact when you
leave your child at daycare or with a babysitter at home, and don't
prolong the agony with extended goodbyes. Your baby's tears will subside
soon after you're out of sight.
You can help your baby feel more
independent by not hovering over her all the time. Of course, she still
needs to know that you're around and dependable. So if she toddles to
another room, wait a couple of minutes before following. If you go to
another area of the house, call to her when you're in the next room —
but don't come running every time she squawks.
